When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude. - G.K. Chesterton
I admit that I get discouraged sometimes. I'm not discouraged right now, though some people would say I have plenty of reasons to be.
A large part of why I'm not discouraged right now is attitude. (and, no, my attitude isn't always positive -- but I try to make it so) A conscious thinking about the good that comes from what could be seen as a bad situation. And there's always good. A conscious decision to be grateful. And there is always something to be thankful for.
Potential Problem
I live in a town where the natives, while friendly, don't seem interested in becoming friends.
Another Way of Looking at It
I am reminded everyday at how strong and independent I am. Whether it's being able to take care of myself when I'm sick, hanging pictures, or going hiking.
I am reminded how important my friends and family are to me. Even when they drive me nuts, I love them.
I am encouraged to help make it easier for other people who move here and have no one, and reminded to do this even if I'm surrounded by my friends.
Potential Problem
My job -- what I moved here for -- is almost done, and I haven't found a new one yet. I've sent out tons of resumes.
Another Way of Looking at It
If I don't find a job by the time this one ends, I will have the time to start the publishing business I've been thinking about. I will have the time to work on my roadtrip across America project. I've got them both sketched out, I just need the time to implement them.
Potential Problem
My laptop caught a virus and died. Because of this I have not done nearly as much writing while here as I had planned.
Another Way of Looking at It
I have taken time to revisit printouts of things I wrote before I moved here. I rediscovered pieces I had forgotten about. I've revised a lot of these works, making them stronger, tighter, better.
It takes just five minutes to think about what good could come (or has come) from a difficulty in your life. Just five minutes to change your way of looking at a problem so that you can see the positive it adds to your life.
What are you thankful for?
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